Rather than bonding with Saboor, bond more with your father and brother. I'm saying this after thinking it through. Keep distance, boundaries, and respect with others. I see rivalry, jealousy, and competition in her behaviour towards you. My sister is like that too. and usne husband py ankh rakhi hui thi apni sister or sb k samny , aesy sahi rehta ahi and even iqra kanwal ny hira py ankh rakhi and say yeh mera rajkumar hai. or rkhni b chahiye. not saying k u start to avoid him just be platonic comfortable and positive even koi ankh dekhe q k teesre ko ni pata hota k kisi k ankh dekhne sy apny mun bnaya hai or apki repuation lhrab hoti hai but yeah be careful to not give signals and be platonic.but wese b jb koi constant competiiton or jealous ho or. copy krta ho ap uske liye jan b dedo gy woh kam hai. tu aesy logo k sath boundaries respect rakho bus cordail woh zyada izzat krty. and i m sure she is not the person u feel safe and our body knows. tu apny bhai and father sy bond bnao or wese b larkiyun ko unse hi bnana chahiye. q k phir desperate seeking ni hoti. unke ghar sy emotion satisfy hogay hota hai. jo b tha apke baba kr mother k beech tya ofcourse apka fatye rmpther wound dono hai bohit choti umar mne close proximity scens and hyper indepence an d unavialbe father tu jb tak parents wound theek ni kato gy realtiinships wrong partner and sabktage karo gy. q k subconsiously we behave through our wounds. and secure attachmemt style .sensory input control and stop lsitening to music. destabilize emotion manipukate mood swings phir as pas logo ko sariyal chhera and rishty kharab and lower frequency hoti hai or everything is energy jb energy low hogi u will atract wese hi. to learn skills .adpat ,record ,repeat and habit bny gi then personality apni private life men khana khaty tb dekhty woh expresion or chez kro. sensory inpit comtrol 2 hour them 6 hrs aese krty raho. gym 30 minute. face massge ,lymphatic dariange exercise 10 min karo. .tu woh heaal kar k shadi krna.and

so apny bhai or father or wese b apna soavil frnds or sbugahl mahol bnao but male safe protective feeling larkiyun ko bhai or father sy milti hai. wehn theye are single tu desperate ho k sitautionships pr relationship mne jump in or too early invest ni krty new realtionship mne.and pattern reading not fantasizing or listening to music and low self worth and lonelynes daydreaming attachmnet sy unko dimag men itna bar krleti hai. and bohit jkdi attach and blimdsides more with their fantasy ratger seeing them as they are their actions.never trust man words .man yap alot. play alot. or sadqa deti hai k acha hai afiyat k saty ankhon ki thandak or na ho tu tal jaye afiyat k saty. and then observe. but behatr hai grow and inner world calm regulated nervous system. and feminine energy and soft expression , smile and appreciate ,and jb apke pas skills hogi tb ap jb right partne ror raedy hogi zimedariyunnk liye tb apni value karwani aye gy. and apny bhai or father also Bahar efforts kar lete hain ajnabi sy udhar b bond bnao. but family first. and its in nost reserch on happiklness sb sy zyad khush log woh bai jinki rishty kamiyab hai not wealth and success, ghar baap or bhai sy nahi kar pate, jo of course karni chahiye. larkiyun ko specially. or aese man nature b smjh ati hai or easy option hai to experinece and observe. apny hi hai or solo travleing men starnger sy baat karo or silly cheze. ap openly suppres release hota hai an dalso u can se konsi harkat ap cute krty ho. so Shuru mein bhai or father they will feel uncomfortable, but hug them, go shopping, gym. unke comfort k liye order. q k jb fatger cahly jaen gy unko roo gi. and do grocery shopping yourself. Apki social skills bhi develop hongi aur aap judgement se free hongi. Jab ap bargaining aur grocery karte ho, apke andar conviction aur social memory muscle develop hota hai. You learn to do what you believe is right for you, even if someone finds it weird or awkward. Everyone is weird and awkward sometimes, but apko apne mehram mardon se safe aur protected feeling leni chahiye.

Aly ne koi ghalat baat nahi boli thi, aur agar boli bhi thi, let him face it. Bacha nahi hai. Hum aurton ki ek problem hai, and Danyal is a co-actor, not a friend or partner. Uske liye apne bhai ko awkward position mein daal diya, so apni priorities clear karo. light let k he was just skeptical or woh ek audience ki tarah d

Women need that protective and safe feeling, toh apne mehram mardon se lo, which is right. Phir aap bahar wrong partners select nahi karte aur situationships mein desperate nahi hote. As you grow and develop these skills, jab partner aana hoga, you'll know how to make him value you and how to rationally evaluate whether he is the one before investing emotionally. Tab tak grow and enjoy single life. Shadi zyada zimmedari hai.

@Iamsajalali, Saboor khud bhi apni family ke saath zyada close hain. Aly and her father have that bond too. Appreciate your family and partner without being desperate, but in a light, positive way. Make them feel appreciated and lifted by your presence. Build connections through friendship, respectful banter, boundaries, conflict resolution, respect, care, and handling jealousy maturely.

Your partner shouldn't feel that you're giving mixed signals, and you should interact with people platonically unless you're exclusive. Look at Iqra Kanwal. Whether it's friendship or a relationship, unclear boundaries can eventually ruin things. And even if you're single, nothing tops dignity.

Drop any project involving close-proximity scenes. Waise bhi shipping mein mard ka zyada faida hota hai, while women often bear the greater scrutiny. Your adorable energy makes people become your fans and fall in love with your personality. Zanjeer ke last confession scenes soft porn lag rahe thay, especially the way you looked at his lips. And even if he is a playboy, with options and fun, don't lower your standards just to fit into that line.

Your hallucination scenes, especially the way you shyly smiled, were discussed and adored by so many people from Rabiya's POV. People saw a different side of you beyond Sarbuland because you weren't a romance puppet. Itna content YouTube aur X par bana. You were highlighted because of your expressions and character. So, apni dignity lose karne ka koi faida nahi.

Anyway, abhi bhi Sarbuland ka character zyada discuss ho raha hai, despite limited dialogues and arc, while Zaryab and Billo are trending. That's why you should focus on roles where you're central and your character has a strong, independent arc.

Look at Jannat Zubair. She built bonds with Ayaan and her father. Pehle attitude aur nak charhi wali lagti thi, but now she smiles more and praises Faisal Qureshi for being a people person. She has likely developed those skills herself, too. Aly ne bhi kaha tha ke woh ek saal mein bohot change hui, and Jannat said she feels the most contentment when she's growing and evolving.

She adapted expressions, charms, and habits through repetition. Pehle logon se banti nahi thi aur interpersonal skills bhi itni developed nahi thi, but now she's more socially skilled while remaining rational and practical. That's neuroplasticity: repeated behaviours can become habits over time.

Be sorted, detached, and objective. You have so many other things to grow in, including business, but business abhi nahi, kuch arsay baad. Acting ke ilawa bhi grow karo. You've almost played every kind of role. Like L'Habib said, retire at your peak so people remember you as a legend. Enhance your charms and personality.

Social media is power. You can create creative, cinematic content on Instagram, almost like IGTV. People often connect with actors through social media even more than through dramas. Aesthetic content, charming expressions, positive smiles, and goofy, fun reels can brighten someone's day and build a connection with your audience.

Jiya Shankar has gained so many edits and fans through her Instagram presence, sometimes more than actors who do dramas and films. She said she wouldn't do intimate or kissing scenes. Even if that limited certain movie opportunities, she enhanced her expressions through repetition and built a huge fandom and popularity.

Urwa gave her relationship time, returned after years, and look at her popularity. Build your own positive PR through the right scripts, Instagram, and strategic keywords. Mawra also doesn't do close-proximity scenes anymore.

Focus on a calm, regulated nervous system, femininity, joy, discipline, boundaries, and a steel mindset. Be rational, street-smart, book-smart, and emotionally intelligent. Develop soft skills, expressions, social skills, elegance, and interpersonal skills.

Let a man be a man. Appreciate him and allow him to invest in you emotionally, financially, and