In love ,its not .i used to believe this lekin yeh mera version i outgrew. Like the psychologist said i used to be a big banner for if they couldn't handle me at my worst they cant deserve me at my best ,I'm talking about a romantic relationship. But u cant say wrong things ,gussay men ,gaslight them ,blame shift ,emotional cheat and nagging ,and overgiving is red flag as well q k apny heal ni kiya part that feels u need to give more to get loved or prove your worth. And i gain knowledge then observation ,around the world , real men yehi hai or correct hai , after countless observation and experience and results past k b ,my friends ,siblings ,sb k .technology ny choti duniya bna di hy tu duniya men bohot log , And Islam teaches this as well: jo insaan, situation, ya job aapke liye nahi hoti, usmein se aapka sukoon khatam hone lagta hai. That person or situation will repeatedly disappoint you and constantly challenge your peace, almost as a reminder that this isn't meant for you. Sometimes, you need to recognise the signs, accept it, and release it. Release it.

kuch cheze ati hy apko sirf nikharmy k liye ya apky kuch parts ubharny k liye consious krmy k liye ,that also sirf tabhi pata chalta hai jb ap self aware jo or apny emotions ki knowledge lety ho and try to understand k yeh men ny q kiya or yeh mujhy kyun feel hua ,and yeh apko un chezo k liye ready karti hai jahan tak human potential hai and apke liye bnai hai. Tu date ,relationships and marraige jo dissapoint kary ,self respect attacks bar bar ,yeh sb lessons thy, kuch waqt k liye aye thy ,But when u really encounter that person ,its besutifull. Tranquility . Agar 1 marriage 2 marrige or divorce hogai tu that shows woh apke liye ni thy. Woh certain parts evoke karny aye thy like journey ka part thy but manzil ni ,u need to be selective kis ko energy derahy ho. UR GROWTH ,FREQUENCY MATTERS ,SITUATIONSHIP BAD PPL KO ANY MAT DO BE HIGH VALUE KISI B INSAN KI WORTH HIGH NI HOTI WITH THEIR LOOKS ,MARD MEN TU BILKUL MAT DEKHO LOOKS ,UNKE VALUES ,MAN ,RESPONSIBILITY ,HEALED ,GHLT PHASE AYE DARK RASTA LEKE ROG LAGATY HAI YA SAHI RASTA ,LIKE DANYAL. BARE MINIMUM GUY ,LUSTY GUY ,I DON'T EVEN WISH MY FRIENDS AND EVEN FEEL BAD FOR NOOR ,APKI WORTH APKE CHARACTER SY HY. CHOSE TO BE BLIND AND NOT GAINING ENOUGH KNOLWEDGE ABOUT RED FLAGS. AND THEN RONE BETH JAO .ITS ON U U IGNORED IT. AMD DISLOYAL TO UR WELL BEING OR APNY EMOTIONS JO EK BACHO JESE HOTY HAI UNKI ZERO SURVIVAL INSTINCT HAR JAGAH KUCH B CHAHIYE OR BOLEN GY BUT SUNTE THORI HAI. TAKE YOUR EMOTIONS LIKE. A CHILD AND PROTECT IT. Guide them neuroplastocity ,islam ,psychology of human behaviour ,laws ,of assumption and all laws etc ,rational ,strategic calculative discipline ,decision making skill ,evalution ,knowledge pattern reading ,Becoz it wrecks your nervous system, lose ur spark amd ALALH SAID TO PROTECT YOUR HEART AND IN THE END HUM SAB AKHIRAT K LIYE HI AYE HY LEKIN DUNIYA LOG JOB KO ITNA SAWAR NA KARO LIKE HAZRAT ALI SAID NOTHING IN THIS WORLD WORTH YOUR TEARS. AURAT KI KHOBSORTI KHATAM STRESS SY ,.when someone or job ,situation ,person is keep dissapointing u it shows and universal sign k woh apke liye ni hai. Remove urslef from that place. Heart is scared place ap kisi qabil ni rehty. Ek had tak hi apny lena hota ahi. So its always said k grow and gain kanowledge learn from other mistakes yeh wise hai. And fool person apni mistakes sy seekhta hai. And us sy bara fool woh hota hai jo same pattern situation amd dissapoinment galy sy laga k rkhta hai and attached rehta hai or sbaq ni seekhta na hi move on k yeh mere liye ni hy.