Dz himself admitted it, and haqaannn called him a playboy and said he is the most horny. I watch posts and in my group, people talk about how, even through his music how ppl onowing all that fangirling ,third class aurten hongi ,u can enjoy a scene then also usko seperare rakhi banday sy , he objectifies women and has such gandi nazrein. Same with Komal in the drama. You can see the micro-expressions, looking at her chest and lips when he drops her cycle, etc. His clip even came out. I don’t even watch him, but he was in some Sarbiya edits too. Mun khula rehna itself can show that horny energy.

Aurton ke saath control na kar pana, you can clearly see he is the type jiski situationships even apni rishtedaron aur bhabhi se bhi hoti hain. How do women find him attractive? Because Sarbuland ka parda charha hua hai.

Cheap. Stay away. And if men like this attract you, then search, read, and work on your inner world and what you are lacking that you keep getting attracted to horny but emotionally unavailable, man-child, irresponsible and disloyal men. Patterns recognition. Patterns don’t lie.

When I understood this and stopped running away from or justifying even my family’s actions, and even my own, I got clarity and started making better decisions. Read people well.

I use emotions as indicators, like children: samjhana, but then use rationality, objectivity, integrity and dignity to guide them. Learn which emotions to validate and which ones to correct. You can say, “It’s okay to feel this way.” Acknowledge them, don’t suppress them, and name them. Agar nahi pata, toh learn what that emotion is called. Wysa, Anxiety Solution and Intellect are therapy apps that can help with this.

Then comes integrity, morals, values, principles, hikmat-e-amli, and asking: what is actually beneficial for my peace, contentment, stability and growth?

Happiness comes last because happiness is temporary. It comes and goes. But when you have peace and contentment, even during difficult times, you can remain relaxed and pur-sukoon. When you chase happiness, you can easily go toward the wrong things: bad food, bad company, shortcuts, compromises, laziness.so happiness is 6 or 7 on list .

You know you can look your best and achieve your best by working on inner growth, regulating your nervous system, calm regulation, attachment style, discipline and sensory-input control, but you still don’t do it. That is what I call a low level of self-love, self-abandonment and disloyalty to yourself.

Low-value actions ultimately harm your own body too. That is self-abandonment and being disloyal to yourself.