Insaan ko thori sa mind ko strateguc sochna chahiye ,apni dignity ka khayal ,self loyal hi hojata hy bnda,rational ,calcultive ,integrity,rules ,regulation emotional regulation , apni dignity repuration ka khayal self loyal. Thank God Dannny ne boundaries establish kar di. Boundaries establish karne ke peeche uska unprofessional behaviour tha, whatever it was.supetiorty complex Lekin kehte hain na, jo hota hai achhe ke liye hota hai. In the end, that situation actually served you because things came to a pause.

Suddenly, people started linking you with Humzzzzii and creating narratives that you had broken up because you didn't maintain boundaries between yourself and his friends. Of course, anyone would be hurt seeing something like that. People started making assumptions that he broke up with you because of this. These conversations had started circulating, and people were talking.

So yes, he was being disrespectful. That is for sure. He was the worst co-actor you ever worked with. But kehte hain na, har cheez mein, jab humein lag raha hota hai ke hamare saath kya ho raha hai, usmein bhi koi na koi khair hoti hai. Allah par blindly trust karo. Just take the lesson from that experience.And also, usne yeh dekha ke theek hai, job ho gayi, apni boundaries maintain kar li, but meri wajah se meri partner insecure ho rahi hai. I don't want to make her insecure. So he established his boundaries, protected his home and relationship, did his job, and came back. Bas, that's it.

Now, woh bhi apne best friend ke saath nahi karna chahiye tha, but let's leave that aside. You were already receiving love and appreciation from the fans. People were already supporting you ,pr b hota hy. Toh phir itni over-the-top harkatein karne ki kya zaroorat thi?

So now, Karachi mein jo concert hua, recent kal k din usmein interview dete hue he showed off his necklace, which had D and N Forever written on it. He had also written DXN Forever under his post.

And even during the photoshoot, there was that Z and N-like symbol. He deliberately placed his finger over the Z, but it looked more like an N.

Jo cheez hui hai, uske baad precaution lena. Don't put yourself in the same position again. Hazrat Ali (RA) se mansoob ek quote hai ke ek hi pathar se dobara thokar khana bewakoofi hai. The point is, learn from your experiences.

For example, jab aapne Cast wala drama kiya tha, usmein bhi aapke saath issues hue. So, Cast jaisi situations ko avoid karo. Especially jab aapke saath multiple female actors hon, aur aapka role main heroine ka na ho. For example, Jhammi ya Rabia jaisa character. Aise characters mein, jahan multiple actors involved hon, rivalry aur unnecessary competition bhi develop ho sakti hai. So, don't put yourself in those situations again.

Now that I think about it, agar woh experience nahi hota, toh shayad aap precautions lene ke bajaye apni narrative, self-image aur reputation ke baare mein itna consciously sochti bhi nahi.

I always say ke duniya ko itni importance nahi deni chahiye ke aap apne Islam aur Deen ke principles compromise karne lag jao. Your first priority should always be Allah and what Islam teaches you. Uske baad neuroplasticity, strategic thinking, being calculative and making wise decisions about what actually serves you and benefits you.

Lekin iska matlab yeh bhi nahi ke aap apni reputation aur public image ko completely ignore kar do. You should understand that your narrative and public image are also things you need to maintain strategically. Baaki log kya kar rahe hain, kya soch rahe hain, usko itni importance mat do. But apni reputation khud toh damage mat karo.

Aap actively, aggressively shipping kar rahi thi. It was so off. The kind of captions you were liking, the stories you were putting up, everything. And then on top of that, you were sharing those things on your own stories. Can you believe it? Especially the stories you posted after the last episode. Oh my God! And then the caption you wrote for the photoshoot, the way you were posting stories and showing how excited you were during the photoshoot. It was honestly so embarrassing. I don't know what you were thinking.

Ek baat yaad rakhna: kisi ko jealous karne ke chakkar mein shayad woh insaan thora jealous ho bhi jaye, lekin you end up losing something much more important: your exclusivity.

Pata hai ismein kya hota hai? Aapki exclusivity khatam ho jaati hai. A person can lose interest in you when they see you trying to make them jealous. Unke mind mein yeh thought aata hai ke, achha, humari fight hui aur yeh kisi doosre ke saath attach ho gayi? Toh kya humara bond itna precious nahi tha jitna main samajhta tha? Kya woh connection itna insignificant tha ke thori si baat par woh kisi aur ke saath nazar aane lagi?

You also end up compromising your dignity. You become like a cheap copy of the very thing you're trying to prove. Instead of making someone jealous, you're showing them that your connection wasn't as exclusive or precious to you as they might have thought.

So when your breakup happened, or whatever the situation was, instead of immediately surrounding yourself with boys, you should have given yourself space to bloom and grow.

The approach should have been: I'm blooming, I'm glowing. Theek hai, breakup ho gaya? Ho gaya. But I'm not going to make that person the centre of my universe. I'm not going to sit there mourning the relationship or make my entire identity revolve around what happened.

It was just something that didn't work out. Aapko meri baatein pasand nahi aayin, mujhe aapki baatein pasand nahi aayin. I felt we weren't aligned. Our goals and values were different, so we went our separate ways. Bas.

That kind of self-respect, emotional maturity and ability to move forward actually makes a much stronger impression.