Many, your career, of course, do what's best for you. actually having a balance, which is sequence. Sequence sahi hota hai na? Aap khud everything fall into place, which is center of universe: Allah.
Iske saath aapki dignity, integrity, aapki apni akhirat hoti hai. Ke I'm may soft porn ya yeh cheezein phaila rahi hoon. Then jo log hote hain, lustful ya jo bhi hote hain, woh hamare hi scenes ko dekh ke provoke ho jaate hain. And easy victims ke saath woh frustration nikalte hain. That is a fact. I used to never believe that, but fact is a fact.
So, and integrity. And ismein aapka ghalat faida hota hai. When you are at that caliber of actor, you really don't need close proximity scenes because it serves nothing. It's fantasize, un logon ki imagination ki tharak poori hoti hai. But they never actually adore you.
Flirtiness in real life as well. Flirtiness is dopamine, it's a pleasure. But it never makes people connect to you or adore you. People's case mein, you're adorable. Your energy, joyful energy, actually doosron ke dil mein sarayat karti hai, with boundaries as well.
And same with scenes. Your hallucination scene, jiska itna talked about hua, edited more on YouTube and Twitter, talked about more than your confession scene. In confession scene you were looking pretty. But because you made it so provocative, sensual, looking at each other's lips, it became actually dirtier. So it takes away the beauty of it and makes it a lusty scene.
So people didn't actually adore it. People use it as a fantasy and lust thing. They never actually like and adore you because of it, as compared to the hallucination scene of the last episode.
And also Mudassir ki qabar and also when you reunited with your Mama Ji and Tayyab.
So integrity, dignity, Allah ke saath sequence ko aap centre of universe rakhte ho, toh woh cheez aa jaati hai.
Then your growth and skills. Ismein aapki self-respect aati hai, aapki dignity aati hai, ke aap strategic, calculative ho ke aapke liye kya faida hai.
Inmein yes, sometimes aapko environment, social skills, people skills bhi banani hoti hain. But you need to know some core star, for example, is like Daniel, star, tilt date of yours. But aise environment mein aapki bhi acting achhi nahi nikalti. Team matters a lot.
Then the role and character arc of yours.
Then aapko apni team mein, jaise Hania ki Maida hai, Maida Dadi hai, firm, very firm. You need to hire someone like that, very daddy, upfront, ke woh fight kare because aapko karna parta hai.
And jab meeting pe jao, bhale aapka role kitna achha likha ho script pe. Agar aap unko aise push karte ho ya phir is tarah se achhe tareeqe se baat karte ho ke how her character will be presented, toh unke dimaag mein hota hai ke achha, isko humne special tareeqe se portray karna hai.
While you act all sweet, joyful, but have those boundaries as well, ke mujhe achha woh special treatment do.
Bilal apni team ke through, he only chooses the best scripts where he is the highlight, especially after 2023. When he was like, ke three, mujhe mazdoori karne ki kya zaroorat hai?
When you have a formula ke aap achhe actor ho and combine that with smart work, virality. Then aapki talent bhi ubhar ke aati hai. So doing that as well.
And also understanding about the state you are in.
If you are not very happy and you're not socializing much and bubbly and happy-faced in life. For example, aapko funny role mil jaaye, although aap kar loge, lekin itna best nahi karoge jitna agar aap roz socialize kar rahe ho.
And socialize mein aap khulte ho, expression hota hai, aap roz hans rahe hote ho, baatein kar rahe hote ho, people skills, people mein comfortable ho jaate ho aap.
Toh woh cheez dikhti hai, woh magnetism aa jaata hai. Tabhi woh role hamesha se aapke dimaag mein jeeta hai because aapne us waqt kya hota hai jab aapka woh role ke hisaab se woh phase tha.
So this is strategic and smart to choose a role where you are in that state.
Agar state mein nahi ho, toh phir us mahaul mein waise bhi, not just job, apni life mein bhi. Keep socializing no matter how bad situation you are.
Even agar aapka uthne ka dil nahi kar raha. Kisi bhi cheez ko teen din se zyada apne sar pe na chadhaiye. Kisi ki death ka bhi na hamare brain mein teen din ka sorrow likha hua. Uske baad aap phir uske saath jo story attached hoti hai, usko relieve kar kar ke victim bante ho apni story mein.
So keep socializing. Apne aas-paas chaar paanch log rakho jin ke saath aapne kam az kam two hours, one hour show off karna hai. Unko ghar pe bula lein invitation ke liye. Ya phir nashta subah ka kar liya ya jo bhi hai, bulana zaroor hai.
Khudsia, I think, analysis. Hania ne kabhi kisi na kisi ko bhi pakar leti hain show ke liye. Because unko unki zaroorat nahi hai. Unko pata hai unki growth ke liye, unki socializing ke liye woh cheez better hai. Toh influencer kisi ko bhi pakar leti hain.
Aapki jitni achhi influencer friends hain, woh doctor jo hain, scarf wali. Please keep in touch with them. Unse baatein karo. Baaton baaton mein you will understand their mindset as well.
And baaki jo Qudsia aur Ankola roz aapko message karti hain, unka ek group bana ke roz shugal karo.
You will laugh and the expressions jo aapne, for example, Minju from ILLIT, then Anna from MEOVV. Unke expressions record practice kiye hain. Phir zahir hai aapko bande bhi chahiyein ke aap unke saath comfortably usko practical karo.
Toh apne helper ke saath woh expression practical kar lo baaton baaton mein. Group ke saath karo ya phir apne makeup artist ke saath.
Ya phir aapko zahir hai audience bhi chahiye hoti hai, ke log chahiye hote hain, ke aap jo practice kar liya hai, aap phir woh socially comfortably karne lag jao, toh woh pakka bhi ho jaaye.
Toh apne saamne phir karo.
And then job, phir uske baad relationships. Uske baad job. Yeh yeh balance hai ke aapne relationship bhi chalana hai, job bhi chalani hai.
Lekin job mein phir aapko rules and regulations rakhne chahiye.
Agar aapki shaadi hone wali hai. First of all, aap apne partner ke best friend ke saath drama nahi kar sakte. Big no. It's very cheap stuff, very low moral.
Second, aapki jab shaadi ho jaaye, take, give at least three years to your marriage or at least two years to your marriage before signing any project. Taake aap ek doosre ke saath exclusive ho jao, ek bond ek doosre ke saath create ho jaaye.
Popularity kahin nahi jaati, kaam kahin nahi jaata hai. Aata jaata rehta hai. Aapke naseeb ka aapko mil jaata hai. Aur woh aapki izzat mein aaye.
Hit viral. It's a positive PR karwaoge. Aap positive PR se aur PR se push dete ho. Uske baad chhe saat mahina PR se push do. Uske baad log, phir logon ke algorithms waghera pe khud hi aa jaata hai. Phir log khud hi us cheez ko push dene lag jaate hain.
So you need PR with your mehnat and with your aesthetic beauty as well. This combo.
Shaadi ke baad agar aap drama karte ho, it's very stupidity. Phir na partner exclusively feel karta hai and your bond doesn't grow. Aapne time nahi diya hota.
And even after marriage, do only roles where it is female-centric or close proximity scenes na ho. Kyun ke logon ki praise ya co-actor ki praise, log chale jaayenge apne ghar. Log praise karke doosre drama pe chale jaayenge. But aap apna ghar kharab kar doge sirf logon ki praise lene ke liye.
Toh close proximity scenes karne hi nahi hain. Aur agar hain bhi toh unko katwao. Agar hain toh unko soft karo.
Even before marriage bhi yeh nahi hona chahiye kisi ke liye nahi hona chahiye.
Jiya Shankar ne kissing scenes, although she wanted to work with, lekin kitne saal wait kiya. But ab woh nahi kar rahi. But uska Instagram dekho, it is so popular, more than any actor.
So, but she's a bit dumb and stupid. But uske expressions achhe hain, soft and serious. Soft and serious achha hai. And she trained that.
But usne bola, "Main kissing scenes and intimate scenes nahi karungi," isliye phir usko koi movie offer nahi hui. That was her personal integrity and morals.
So even without partner, with partner as well. But after shaadi toh lazmi.
Aap phir apne pyaar ko haari maarte ho, apni exclusivity kharab karte ho because men never love a woman when they feel like uski exclusivity khatam hai.
But yes, you need to keep a balance. Aapko apni individuality mein. Don't make everything about him. Aapko apne hobbies, bhale aap kaam nahi kar rahe lekin hobbies karo, socialize karo. Aise karte raho.
Aur jab kaam pe aao toh woman-centric roles.
Jaise Sanam Baloch jab comeback kiya tha, she did with Ek Thi Marium. Woh Sanam Baloch ka Pakistan mein one of the best actresses kaha jaata hai. Toh woh apne us level ke roles usne kiye, ke main Sanam Baloch, I am Sanam Baloch.
Usne female-centric Ek Thi Marium kiya tha jab woh wapas aayi thi. Lekin phir uske baad break le liya tha.
And ab bhi, although she's not even in the industry, but people still naam lete hain: Saba Qamar, Sajal Ali, Sanam Baloch.
Aur aapka toh ab balkay drama role karne lag gaye because ab bad scripts choose kar rahi ho. Too much exposure is not right.
Saal mein, do saal mein ek project karo, lekin achha project karo jismein woman-centric ho.
Aapki beauty aesthetics mein aap bohat zyada doll ke doll looks hain. Soft face hai. Aap doll lago.
Jab aap petite hoti ho, small face hota hai, jaise Zanjeerain ke jo scene cut hua tha, apni story pe lagaya tha. Usmein you look like a doll.
Chupke Se Bahar Aajaye, you look like a doll. Mera Yaar Mila De. Look like a doll. And also Gulerana.
Soft face and small toned face. Us face ke saath and with acting and female-role-centric and with positive PR.
Script mein suspense aur thriller ho. Yeh woh logon ko attract karta hai. And female-centric strong character arc with commercialism and suspense. Ek hit hota hai, then positive PR karke chhor do.
Apne trip pe kahin chale jao. Na achha dekho na bura dekho. It feels more good ke aap apni technology se door ho aur log aake aake bataayein ke aapke project ko itna pyaar mil raha hai.
Woh authentic reaction, instead of mobile pe constantly scroll karna validation ke liye.
Positive PR, uske liye strategy bhi chahiye, of course. Because we need to collect data ke exposure ka word hai. Kitna bhi achha product ho, woh pass by ho jaata hai aur aap PR na karwao, algorithm pe push na ho. Tweets ko boost na karo.